Here’s Why People Value Grace and Gracefulness in Their Leader
Grace is defined by Dictionary.com as simple elegance or refinement of movement. Practicing grace, especially when people don’t expect it or, when they may not deserve it, absolutely will make them feel important. It’s extraordinary and special. The word “special” by definition, sparks good feelings and sentiments. These include positive words such as remarkable, exceptional, significant, and
Here’s How Great Leaders Make People Feel Important and Why it Matters
Why should leaders be intentional about making sure their teams feel important? Their teams will become more confident, leaning into their special talents and uniqueness.Their teams will become more productive, accomplishing more, in less time, with fewer resources.Their teams will become inspired to push even harder and go even further. Here’s how the best leaders make sure
Three Things People on Your Team Want to be Reminded Of
“Life is not a competition. Life is about helping and inspiring others so we can each reach our potential.” — Kim Chase, Actress What can we remind people of to encourage them? Their strengthsTheir accomplishmentsTheir passions We can remind people of their strengths, accomplishments, and their passions. Remind People of Their Strengths Some people know and understand their natural strengths, but
My Winter Olympics Story About The Attraction of Winning and an Underlying Paradox
This is a blogpost I wrote and published on my very first blog / passion project – www.GoOneMoreStep.blogspot.com. I started that blog in January of 2011. This is a throwback, retro blog post that was inspired by one of the many stories we often hear or read about Olympic athletes. It was a Sunday morning
The One Thing You Need to Know About Your Team in Order to Recognize Them in Meaningful Ways
Walter Burke Barbe first designed the VAK model for learning and it was later developed by Neil Fleming. It’s the idea that people process information in one of three ways: Visually, Auditorily, or Kinesthetically. What does this have to do with recognition? When we know how our people prefer to process information, it allows us to recognize them
Do You Know What “Sawubona” Means?
It’s a word from the Zulu culture, in South Africa. It means, “I see you.” Its literal translation is “we see you…”. As if to say, “Our whole tribe sees you.” Inherent in the Zulu greeting, “Sawubona,” and the grateful reply, “Ngikhona,” is a sense that “…until you saw me, I didn’t exist.” In Zulu culture, this exchange
A Story About the Power of Encouragement
In the early ’80s, there lived a girl named, Emily, in Roehampton, South West London, England. She was beautiful and smart but had a stammering stutter which made her too shy to speak to others. One of her teachers had an idea that he thought might cure her of her stutter. He encouraged her to
Dream Diligently…
What better time than Martin Luther King Day for a quick thought on DREAMS…Dr. King had a dream…a dream that he so diligently shared through his passionate sermons, lectures, speeches, books, and nonviolent protests that his very dreams, in fact, changed the landscape of American society; and in many ways, the world. Thought for the week:Everybody dreams…but
Two Simple Ways to Help Your Team Feel Fulfilled
What is fulfillment? And why do you think this is important for us to understand, as leaders? Look at the root word of fulfillment, which is to fulfill. It means “to develop the full potential of.” Isn’t it ultimately up to us, as leaders, to develop the full potential of our people? Of course, it is. Fulfillment’s
Three Things Leaders Who Lead with Hospitality Do with Purpose
When we have a purpose, we know exactly who we are, where we’re going, and most importantly, we know why we’re doing what we’re doing. This is a magical feeling – one of significance, driven by passion. Remember, our goal, as leaders, is to connect with and inspire people to become their absolute best so they